Maluicious Against Sexual Harassment

Today I feel put down because in the past week, one guy from school said I did a “blowjob” over Facebook and in class.  I think he said that because he thought it would be a funny rumor that people say in middle and high schools. The post about the “blowjob” was considered sexual harassment to a girl. Not only is it wrong, legally, but it made me feel horribly embarrassed because I don’t want people think that I would do something like that.  Cyberbullying is not right, but it’s especially wrong to make up rumors about someone’s body.  Just because a kid has issues, autism, and Asperger’s, doesn’t mean you have to make up rumors about them and make fun of them. A kid with these issues is different and unique. A friend of that mean boy told me to sing and dance, and she is not a friend of mine. She asked me to sing and dance just so she could laugh at me.  I met her in the seventh grade when she was in my geography and language arts classes. In my last four blogs, I said that nobody in this world is perfect, which means that everyone makes mistakes. In my last blog I said that a friend is someone you talk to, who is loyal to you and does not say mean things about you behind your back. An acquaintance is a person who can be mean to you behind your back, even though they shouldn’t be mean.

How can I help solve the problem of bullying and cyberbullying?  I will start a foundation.  I can call my foundation “The Maluicious Against Bullying Campaign” to end bullying to anyone, especially children with autism or Asperger syndrome. We can make a difference to end bullying and make life easier to handle in any way because God makes no mistakes. I mean that God created us all to be like this, some of us are special (like me with autism), but all of us are special in our own ways.  The end of bullying, begins with me! For teenagers you can visit www.teensagainstbullying.org to end bullying in any middle or high school.

Because I was sexually harassed by this boy, I think it is important for all girls to know how to protect themselves if they are ever in an uncomfortable situation with a boy.  First, you have to let the boy know that you are uncomfortable and you feel like you are being harassed.   You can say in a loud, clear, strong voice to “Leave me alone!”.  You can tell an adult, scream for help, and run away.  It’s harder to deal with cyber-sexual harassment because I couldn’t scream at the boy, or tell him how awful I felt, or make him stop writing his inappropriate comments.  He got suspended, but I hope he never speaks to me, or about me, ever again.  He should be ashamed of himself.