Everyone in this world…not perfect. Some people say or think that they are perfect, but they’re really not. Mean girls say they’re perfect, but they’re mean…not perfect. This reminds me of a Hannah Montana song called “Nobody’s Perfect”. I listened to that song when I was like 9 or 10, but the message is still good today. My friends are not mean. I don’t choose mean people as my friends. Sometimes it’s hard to understand how people can be mean only sometimes. If you’ve read my blog before, you know that I was having a little problem on Facebook. I had almost 450 friends. Everyone in my school has like 500 or more, and so I didn’t think that it was a problem. My mom thought it was a problem after I had some issues with cyber-bulling. So, I had to delete a whole bunch of my friends on Facebook. It made me feel upset, so I discussed this with a friend. I said, “Just because there’s a little problem doesn’t mean that you have to delete nice people on Facebook.” He said, “That’s true. “ I talked with another friend of mine and she also agreed with me. I know my mom is trying to protect me and do what is best for me, but it feels so wrong in so many ways. A lot of people ask, “Why did you delete me on Facebook?” I don’t want anyone to say that or to feel upset. I don’t want them to think that I’m mean. I’m a nice person! Nice people don’t delete other people. My older friend says that deleting someone on Facebook does not make you mean. She says that your actions and behavior around your friends will show them that you care. It doesn’t matter if they are deleted or not, they will know that I love and care about my friends by my actions.
A lot of people in my school are so nice and I really want to be friends with them on Facebook. I’m just not allowed right now, but I hope I get to be. I feel like this is very hard for me, but also hard for my mom. I understand that my mom is trying to protect me. She does not want me to be cyber bullied.
I am worried that I will be the only one with 100 friends/family. Everyone has like 500 or more. Some people might even have 1000 or more. I would like to have unlimited friends, just like everyone else. I like to be different with my look, like my hair or makeup. Those are things that can make me unique. I’m different because I have autism. I’m different because I spend a lot of time thinking instead of hanging out. What I realized is that I like being different when it comes to looks or personality. I want to be like everyone else when it comes to social things. This is sometimes hard for me to explain to my mom and other people. I wish there was a way for both me and my mom to be happy about Facebook. I care a lot about what other people think, even though it’s not a good thing to worry about. I know my mom loves me, and I love her very much. I just wish there was a way to compromise on Facebook so both my mom and I are happy.
My friend Chelsea had an idea about adding friends with me that SHE knows. What a great idea! I would like to have more friends.
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